Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
Here is another great story she wrote on the four types of Other Women. My H's OW is the young and naive one who is alone on weekends and holidays and will never be a real part of his life because she will not be able to meet his family and friends. Oh, joy!
Regarding the Voicemail. Now I know it was a mistake. I should have stayed dark, but WHAT DO I HAVE TO lose at this point? I just want her to also stay clear of me before I shove her face into the pavement. that is such a joke. The thing is I really did get the sense that some of those doormen seemed to switch their allegiance to me awfully easily. Not that they ever condoned my H's affair or even knew about it. They just seemed to be very protective of me and my mom saying I would not have to worry about H ever coming into my work on their watch. Weird.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Thank you! It is another perfect day in California! I love this time of year because the sun shines that golden cast on everything green and red. I know I am so lucky and I get a lot of sweet support at work. Most of the collegues I have told are women, of course. Three: the principal, my partner, and my team leader. It is like therapy working with these strong women.
The thing is I am repulsed by the woman who recruited me in the first place. She is an OW who had an affair with a teacher when she was a 17 year old student. This male teacher had two kids and was 15 years older than us, I was a Junior. They are together 20 years later and he is still messing with the younger women and this District Official/OW is also having an affair with another male teacher who of course, has two young kids and is married!!! and everyone in the school seems to know. I think it is deplorable but no one says anything to her face. She is the competitive OW. The worst kind really. I hate her and I think she is a real B. Luckily, I only have to see her twice a year. She will probably be superintendent someday.
Last edited by mkultra; 09/28/0712:48 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Ok, those 5 stages are sooo frightenly true, I actually gasped. mk, what a hard couple of days. The voicemail...sigh...you had to say it, just just did. No worries there. You weren't yelling, you weren't pursuing him, you were just making a request. I think it was fine.
yeah, that would repulse me, mk. yuck. but glad you have such good support with the women you have chosen to talk to. they sound like good choices to have in your corner.
I love CA and miss it a ton. its a beautiful time of year minus the santa anas that kicked up where I was. and the brush fires from the summer drought.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
I bang my head each time I do that because I can just see him roll his eyes!!!! 48 hours darn it. OK, regroup. I had to say it. It is cruel and unusual punishment for him to do that in front of anyone but especially cruel to do that in front of me. Oh yeah. I no longer exist. Hmmm. Ok it is dangerous for them to walk the streets together because I drive a huge SUV! That is a stupid joke I know women have really run over their unfaithful and abusive husbands. I would never do that to my car. OMG. I have to stop.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
