morgan: thanks, as always, for checking on me. I'll be over to your 'house' soon.
ROOT: I am wondering if OW's H knows how much H is calling and if he will get tired of it, that's for sure. Also, I have thought about the alimony and child support. I need to do some research about that. I would never hesitate to pay child support if that was what was needed.
Neph: Thank you for pointing this out, that its better to be in limboland, than to drive him farther away. Wow, thanks.
HaveFaith: Funny you asked that. H just got a job 5 weeks ago and I honestly thought I would *never* see his paycheck, thought he would open his own account. The first day, he called home for our checking account number (for direct deposit), and had his checks deposited to our account. I never said anything (that I thought otherwise).
husband: Thanks for my creepy horoscope. I LOVE THOSE!
Hope: Your H. Wow. And yes, I can pretty much guarantee if I went tomorrow and withdrew half of our savings/checking and opened my own account, H would FREAK.
Sara: thanks for the email. I need to go read it.
Journaling:
Feeling better today. More importantly, D3 is so much better. Of course, I haven't seen much of them, since I am working a 12 hour shift. Tomorrow, only 6 hours then I'm off til Sunday. I miss them.
I am thinking H will be spending tomorrow night at his dad's. We shall see.
Hope everyone is having a good day. For the record, I am still angry at H, but my pity party is over.
yay for feeling better...hopefully tomorrow is even better for both of you. and H tomorrow night at his dad's might not be a bad thing...give you a break from any tension/possible drama. you need a break, to just chill out and relax. and since you have a short day, maybe you can actually have a moment to unwind, and maybe spend some nice time with the girls.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Hi there. So glad to hear that you're feeling better today and especially that your D3 feels better.
Thanks again for stopping by my thread. I really appreciate it. I'm 50/50 on my feelings of going home this weekend. I know I need to and I know that H & I need some space, but I'll also be thinking of him the whole time. My mom & sister already have plans for us to go out, so that will help. I'm hoping that he does take the time to think about things. I'm also excited to see our dog. She's very comforting. It will probably be when I see her that I break down. I guess better to get it out this weekend than around H.
Hey, I probably won't get on tomorrow. I have some work to get done and am leaving before noon. I might hop on my parent's computer this weekend.
Have a great weekend. I'll be thinking of you too!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
