Oh man, what your daughter said. That's just awful if your W is saying those things. Pathetic actually. You obviously should remain neutral to your daughters, saying "Well, Daddy loves Mommy and I want to stay together with her." And of course, throw in "We will always love you no matter what". I don't know if you should confront your W about it (although she should know that its horrible what she said), because it seems everything is setting her off.
