If you think there will be a blow out then get your son out of the house first. Don't let him find out what his mum did that way - it hurts the kids so much.

Try please to wait until you go back to work and send that letter. You have been patient so long do not blow it now.

You are one of my lifesavers on here. Keep strong.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength