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AAAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHH

I have been doing better with the urge to call her. I try replacing that thought with Frank_D yelling at me again and it goes away ;\) .

Anywho, she is going away today "with a bunch" of people including FFOM and she e-mails me about when MC would work schedulewise. I started to reply and decided not to today.

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Originally Posted By: mcojh
AAAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHH

I have been doing better with the urge to call her. I try replacing that thought with Frank_D yelling at me again and it goes away ;\) .



Hey Mc,

It is hard. I have stopped calling My W about things. Now she calls me. Strange

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Originally Posted By: mcojh
AAAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHH

I have been doing better with the urge to call her. I try replacing that thought with Frank_D yelling at me again and it goes away ;\) .

You FOOL! Forget her, she is a moron.
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Anywho, she is going away today "with a bunch" of people including FFOM and she e-mails me about when MC would work schedulewise. I started to reply and decided not to today.

Good. No need to reply. Let her ask you a second time.


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Yes I am a fool, but I must ne learning because I went about my business today and put her out of my mind.


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good for you MC. Don't let her sense that you are still "clingy", even in the mind. Always good to wait a bit
rather than replying emails right away. Let her wait.

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MC,

I don't know what kind of conflict you allowed to get in the way of Retrouvaille. But you should give going to Retrouvaille the highest priority. Find a weekend in October anywhere, and go to it. It can be a nice little weekend getaway just for the 2 of you. See the sights friday afternoon, and then check-in at 7:00. You can do the post sessions later. You need the weekend now. Don't make your marriage a low priority. That's what gets us all into this mess in the first place.

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I would love to do that. CW is the one who is against it.


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I'm sorry MC. I'm getting confused. I meant to put that post on Lester's thread. That wasn't even meant for you.

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