Yes you are right there could be other reasons. She makes such a big deal about not taking drugs for pain and the such. I don't know. I know I don't hae facts and should not assume it is because she does not want to be with me.

But..... She did tell me in the past that sex was no big deal with her and when we had it she had been drinking So I asked her if sex is no big deal then why did you have it with him. She said "well if I am going to do it I might as well do it with someone I care about". Now Mind you this was 5 months ago and her attatude twards me seems to have changed but...

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know