Just be careful - you are so near getting what I thought you wanted. Which lies in particular are bothering you at the moment - the secrecy from the family? The OM? All of it? Are you wondering if you do want to be with her?
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength