Maybe she is drinking because she feels bad about what she did with OM. Perhaps she is drinking because she has been rejected by OM and thinks you don't want her either. Don't assume it is because she does not want to be with you.
Things on the boards have been a bit down the last while and you have a big step ahead of you. Keep strong. Your sitch does not look as bad from the outside as it seems to appear to you - unless there is something you are not telling us.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength