You haven't 'talked' in a while so I am sure there will be things she has hidden away in her mind you don't know about. It doesn't mean it can't be sorted.
Do you really think she has a drink problem?
Do you think perhaps you are starting to build a wall so you don't get hurt when you send the letter?
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength