Hey, jak, I just don't talk R anymore at all with H. Occasionally he will say something, make a comment, but I usually don't reply, just look thoughtful or something. He is saying stuff that makes me think he is going to be here in the future. Yesterday, I was on the phone with him, and we said goodbye, and I said to myself--Don't say ILY, and see what happens--. Well, he said ILY to me. How about that?
I would really like to get out and do something like shoot guns or something, get out some aggression.
Don't forget, jak, tonight is Survivor, so tell your H he would do well on it. That's what I tell my H.