Oh that's right.... great thought to hold onto for sooo many situations. Whatever happened to TL?
Honestly I've been doing really well. My H is out of town this week, and I have had no work lined up, so I'm mostly taking care of a recuperating puppy (and the kids). She was spayed on Monday, and now has to wear a funny looking cone collar on her head.
But my H has been great he has called every night. In the past he never used to do this. He even calls once a day, or every other day from work when he is in town, so I have to give him enormous credit for that. It really is a big change because this is a guy who in 20 years of marriage almost NEVER called from work!!! Maybe once a year he'd call!!!! And when he went out of town for a week he *might* call once.
So I definitely don't want to do anything harmful to my marriage. I just want to work out some of the negatives I've held on to.
By the way, Saffie's comment about the "too quick" thing. I don't have a lot to compare to but if I remember the few intimate relationships I had prior to meeting my husband (long long long ago!) I have to say... there's probably something to that. But I don't think my husband knows it, and I would never say anything. I don't think it's important. There's much more than that.... I guess we all do have some thoughts and ideas that are better left unsaid....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
