Hi Lin! How are you? Good to read about trust and how to build it again.
Over here things are still the same. OW dumped DH for ten days then they got back together again. DH won't live in the downstairs appartment. He told me almost three weeks ago he was looking for other appartments aswell.
Now he's pushing me to move. He wants me to take a look at an appartment which would be next door to the appartment DH would be living in. I don't feel like doing this. I don't trust his motives. He is in a real bad financial situation. Just now he said that he thought it wise for me to do on an emaotional and financial level. I asked why and he said it would be a clean break for me because there are so many memories in the house I live in. the financial bit didn't add up. the only thing which made sense is there would be less fixing in the appartment.
He told his best friend it over between us. Meanwhile he comes around very often to see DS and wants me to join on outings.
I'm not sure what I want to ask you... Maybe just write... I'm nearly at 16 mo's seperation...
