Hi all, well, it's been two years since I started DB. My wife still has no intent on working on the marriage. She still wants to raise the kids together, but that's it. We did go out for dinner, movies, etc, but she has told me that she doesn't want to go out with me ever again, which is a huge change. I don't know what has caused it, but I am ready to throw in towel. The lawyer told me to wait until she gets her career up and running before I file, but she has no need to get serious as I am still paying all the bills. I don't know what else I can do, as our marriage counselor has pretty much given up on her. She has borderline personality disorder, and she has pretty much put alot of things in denial.

Any suggestions?