That's the attitude!!!! But remember - your wife might not like Frank and he might not like your W!!!! One has to adapt the info one gets to suit one's sitch. You are no dummy so I don't know why I am stating the obvious. Between Jeff, Frank and yourself you will hopefully get the correct tone for your W to come to heel LOL

'goinginsanehere' could do with some TLC if you feel up to it - his thread is called 'Also posted in Newcomers'. I can't link - duh. I think Frank and Jeff maybe just a little too much for him at the moment but you and mc might be just what he needs. I am very worried about him.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength