Plank removed from my eye, too late for WAW? 6

[stewart10]

Hey Heim:

I have been paying attention, but have not had much to add. You have been getting some good advice lately. Just one thing you said struck me.

I've got some warts I'd like to remove, but I'm not a toad. All in all, when I look in the mirror, I'm generally OK with the face staring back at me.

I think this explains most of the people on this board. Most of us realize that we all have had something to do with the breakdown in our marriages or relationships. But, we are still here willing and able to change those things that have done the damage. The difference between us and the WA's is that we are still here trying to make this work. And we can look in the mirror and see what our contributions to the breakdowns are, but more often than not, the WA's just try to blame everything on us. You should be happy with what you see in the mirror. You are an outstanding father, you are an outstanding husband-no matter what W says you are here tying to work on M- you are doing everything within your power to make the R work. You have nothing to be ashamed of. And who doesn't have a wart or two. I know I do.


Stew