I should have guessed PMA. Just one thing you might be able to help me with. I've always been very close to my husbands family. I was fostered so i don't have a very close relationship with my foster mum. Therefore my h family have felt like my own. They obviously know about the situation because he's sort of left and come back a few times. They have tried to talk to him, but he doesn't want to talk. Also he's never come clean about other women(evidence has been very strong) His family talk to me all the time, they phone a lot. They've been a great support to me. H is aware of this(checked my phone a few times) he hates it wants me to stop talking to his family. Has even said he will talk less to ow(supposed to be good friend; 20 calls and 80 texts in one month. yeah right) if i stop talking to his family. He has said he feels like i have put everyone against him. His Dad has written loads of letters, i've had to ask his Dad to stop. It was driving H nuts. What do you think.