Markyb, I haven't read your stitch in a while, but regarding why your W was asking you how you are doing, etc. You wondered why she is suddently showing "interest".....this is just a wild guess, but if you are still handing over the money....brace yourself. Sounds to me like she could be planning to tell you about something expensive she "needs". I agree with the others here that you need to get advice ASAP from a lawyer and stop supporting her lifestyle. There surely are ways to support the children without her spending it however she wishes. At lease there would be boundries. Don't allow her to sweet-talk you, lay guilt trips or any other female tricks that she may try. Know your rights and the law. It could be that it is nothing at all about money. She may have been mad at OM those two times.....who knows. ((hug)) If, however, you begin to see a consistant change in good behavior toward you....then you might want to think in more postive terms. Just my thoughts, for what its worth.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
