You act as if you are powerless and there is nothing that you can do but sit there and be walked on. Well brother that is a load of BS. You have all the power and ability to make a difference. There are so many positive steps and actions you can take that do not include R talk, OM talk. Your hands are not tied like you think they are, only your brain is. You need to untie it and make a difference and not sit back feel like you are helpless.
I know how you feel. I have been where you are (minus the OM) I have and I still am struggling with my son's emotions (also 5). But, I have decided not to make a bad situation worse by feeling helpless and full of self loathing. It took me awhile to get to that point, but let me tell you I am sure glad I have gotten there and you will be also. But no one else is going to do it for you. You have to get there on your own. Willpower, self respect and confidence that is what it will take. Strangely enough those are also all qualities that attract a woman to a man.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
