Bottom line is we can choose to either dwell on the what ifs, the whys, the blaming, the finger pointing, the self pity, the shame, the pain, the fear, etc. etc. etc. blah blah blah... Or we can put on our big boy pants and do something about it.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”