I've started IC and have been pleased so far. Really, I do have a lot of issues to work out and can't go on with my life like it has been, it's time to deal with them all regardless of what happens with the M. I don't expect it to change anything for my W, but I do expect it to change a lot for me and that's what I need to do right now. On the plus side, my W has taken an interest in what I'm going through in therapy and the issues I am facing. I'm happy to talk about it, really learning to be vulnerable is part of being emotionally available to her and I'm willing to share these parts of me with her. Not to try and influence her, just to have someone to talk to about all I'm going through. I would have thought it would be weird to do that, but so far it hasn't been... I guess since I'm going for me, not for her or our M, it leaves me feeling pretty open to talk about it.
