saving, that is a very good point. There are several of us here that are dealing with lack of trust, confidence and respect from our wives and they do not think we are sincere about the changes we are making or at the very least they are skeptical. Us going to a IC on our own may be a great way to show them how serious and sincere we really are. I have been holding off from looking for a C until I could get my W to go also. But, that just may be the way. Who knows? It is well worth the try anyway, wost case scenario a C can help my with my issues. LOL
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”