mk, just because you have lost some weight and are having a change of attitude, it does not mean you are in the midst of a MLC. I've said it before, when you start wearing neon colors/teasing your hair/trying to pretend you are 20 again, then we'll talk.
reading those stages made me ill...yep, I've seen each and every one of them. at least now I can step aside and stop buying into the crap he pulls. the re-writing hurts so much, though, because it takes away even the good memories...like they never existed. it all just sucks, sucks, sucks.
(((HUGS))) about the voice mail. I know it hurts. I can well imagine just how much it hurts. just remember, you can't change what he is doing. you can ask him to be courteous, but in the end he may just think you are making too big a deal about it and are freaking out because you are the one who is nuts/emotional/picking at things. he's already justified himself in his own mind, after all. hopefully he'll abide by your wishes on it, just have a back up plan as to how you can handle it if he doesn't.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
