Just as a side note about the therapist thing. I would think from her perspective you are not even serious about changing, learing from your mistakes if you were not going to therapy. I know that for my sitch - the fact that I have been going to therapy since week 2 of the bomb has been one of the strongest positives I can show my H that I am making every effort I can to do with my actions and not with my words. I am still not sure where things are with us, but they have been feeling like they are progressing to a more positive path and I KNOW that therapy has been a big part of it. Let alone for the PMA it gives me, but him knowing that I am going I think helps him realize that I am not the same old me.
