Thanks, ST and na, your words help and they do make sense.
Now here's a big HELP! (and perhaps a be careful what you wish for)
I just got an email from H saying he's uncomfortable feeling like a guest in his own home and it's time to talk about him moving out. He says "I can't tell what you think about this, but for me, moving out is part of the creating-the-life-I-want-idea. It sounds a bit scary to me, and I know it's the right thing to do.
My concerns are figuring out the money, figuring out the schedule, and telling the kids -- and I need your help/involvement with all of them."
Lordy. My stomach's in knots again, with a bit of a very welcome feeling of relief thrown in.
And re telling the kids: I want it to be clear to them that this is papa's choice and NOT what I want. But I want to do what's best for them, too. Anyone have words of wisdom re telling them (and what???)?
I need help, folks. This is going to be a hard conversation. Any and all advice desperately needed.
