sigh. never say never.
in rereading my post, AFTER the edit window has expired :-/ i realize that yes, he has initiated, once or twice. But hopefully, my point is still clear: that expecting him to, is an unlikely and unreasonable expectation.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle