Saffie, I'm driving myself insane. Just received an email for an order my wife placed for bra/panties. I looked them out to see what they look like. They are extremely sexy and I know she got them for the other guy. She still only admits to an emotional affair but my gut tells me it's already beyond that. In fact she said after telling me last night she loves him, she said there was more but didn't want to hurt me further. Can a wife truly every want to come back if she is truly in love with another man. I'm back to just wanting to die (I'm seeing a doctor and I have meds)