Get me on a smoother ride....need advice - part 3

[SueS]

By the way, what are your work schedules? How much time do you and your husband spend together?

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Well, our schedules just changed at the end of June. I work 8-5 and H works, M & F-10-7pm & T-W-Th-12-9pm. It's not horrible and he wanted to see if he could change one of his late days to another 10-7. That would be great. I was so excited when his schedule changed and we'd been spending a lot more time together.....having dinner together on M & Fr. & then doing something on the weekends. My parents come in as often as they can and babysit for us, so we don't get out as often together as we'd like, but we do get out.

HOWEVER......for almost a year & 1/2, I had 8-5, while he'd work from 5/5:30-11:30 pm. For a long time, that was M-Fr., so we had NO time for the two of us. The A had to have started in early June because he started his new job end of June & that was in a different building & even suburb from where she works.