You are right that her needs were not being met. Neither were mine but the only difference is I didn't choose to go outside our M and break up our family. I care about my M and we did get lost for a while but one has a responsibility to give their M all of their efforts and not run for the exit when their S doesn't meet their expectations. My W left me and now I only see my children once a week AND she always has her hand out constantly for money.
All these WAS get a free pass because they can justify their actions by pointing blame. It is a load of garbage that one person can make a decision that effects many others for a lifetime.
How dare my W say "we both wanted out of this marriage, I was the only one to say the words". Since when does she get to speak for me!!! She bails out and says that I wanted out also so she can have her fantasy life with her piece of garbage OM.
Great lives we end up with!! We all here are trying to make things work and our WAS just go about there lives and don't care about the family just looking to be sure their "emotional needs" are met. So they find adultery to be the solution. So what if children only live with one parent. As long as their "emotional needs" are being met they won't bail out and commit adultery!!
I hope you all will excuse my rant but I keep seeing my D5 crying when I have to leave her. I see the disappointment in her eyes.
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007