Two JC sessions ago I said if W was still not willing to work on the M, that we needed to re-visit the "terms" of our separation. She still isn't willing.
Maybe this is a stupid question, but I'm going to ask it anyway .. if you're not working on the marriage in JC, what are you working on?
Also, could there be other reasons for her not wanting to go public with the s, like maybe she's not really sure that this is what she wants? Has she brought up D?