I have two "other" scenarios for him that make sense to me. In one scenario he is hooked up to an LDW and they are happy as can be. He keeps his sexual issues and she keeps hers and they find an agreed upon level to live with. I could almost do this except for my karen-ness.
In another scenario he hooks up with someone who is a sexual psychic and knows how to hit the buttons that I just can't find and they have sex at a rate that at least approaches the national average.
Number one is the more likely scenario although even in #1 there would probably be an interlude of higher frequency due to the newness factor. If there is a third party involved in this R then it is someone who strikes his sexual or emotional buttons in places that I don't. My Karen-ness is what it is - it means that I resonate in a certain way and someone else does so in another. KWIM?