foreplay... I think I probably take too long with that too. ======================== well, it's happened to me too that if we take too long there sometimes I get desencitized and can't O, so dont' goo too long there. I dont' think there is anything normal as far as how long ML sessions are, everyone is different, and prob what I'd like in bed someone else woudlnt' care for much.
I remember grilling H about this last yr, and he'd say it was just sex, different but thing out of the ordinary, that that's all it was for him.
You have some valid questions, but some questions are just splitting hairs and keeping you miserable and your H wondering when things will ever be normal again.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
