Lil, I do think it is about me and I don't. I don't think it is a statement about me and my worthiness as a wife, sexual partner or person BUT I do think it is a statement of sorts about his feelings toward me. I like your restatement of his position because I think that is about right.
Well, clearly since you are there, he is relating (or not) to you... but do you imagine that if he were married to someone else, he would want sex and initiate it? Or that if somehow YOU were different in some undetermined way that it would turn on his sexual interest?
IOW do you believe that his lack of interest is due to you and your "karen-ness," or that he would likely be sexually uninterested with any other attractive wife, too?
