OC,

No make-up!!!! What on earth are you thinking woman? And in California! Yikes!!!! My gosh, you need to go spend some time at the make up counter. Go to Macy's today... I'm sure you're a natural beauty, but every woman can benefit from at least a little extra color and mascara... definitely mascara...

LO,

Even better is to strongly INSIST "Oh, but we're just friends... really that's all it is..." and then kind of look off and smile.


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.