I have fallen back a bit recently in the dressing department. Will have to get back up to dressing nice (may not be sexy, but well groomed instead of no make up).
LO, yes, H does not have to know that it is or is not just "friends". If he asks, you are just re-connecting with old and new friends and living your life. I called up a few ex-coworkers (male-dominated) for lunch, even dinner. H was curious. Good for my networking and good to hear their stories, too. It's actually funny now that I talk to those people, I can pick up where some are all happy, how some may be showing signs of MLC, etc.