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[saffie]

Just a thought here, but, how about a written schedule re your son which you and W stick to as much as possible. This would avoid too much contact with wife and give you son a regular schedule which will give your son some comfort aswell.

Try and communicate through text message - it stops too much being said - who can be bothered to enter into much dialogue by text - it takes way too long. That way you can answer when you want aswell.

Just an idea.

saffie