simonw, sorry haven't posted in a while. I hope your doing okay. I'm sorry you feel like quiting. It really is about being consistant. The more consistant you are, the better the outcomes will be, for the most part that is.

But we all have our different boundaries and our limits. As a christian, I feel like we should have an everlasting patience waiting on God's perfect timing. But I totally understand how you feel. You are not superman, and no one should expect you to be. Your children are more important, and if your sitch is causing you more problems than you can handle, you need to do what you can for your sanity. I always hope that any LBS on here can get thru their sitch and have the patience, but every sitch is different and I know it is soooo hard. It's probably the hardest thing we will ever go thru.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."