My curiosity doesn't always help me. Sometimes I think it is better not to know. The way things are for you right now I would keep doing what you are doing. What can you gain from talking to OW's H - it's hard to know. The only thing that would be good would be if he called to say that his W no longer sees your H but would that actually mean anything at the end of the day. the R that's important is between your H and you and how you feel about that - not anything else. Your PMA is the most important thing, (hark at me preaching now!!!). Protect that.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
