Talking to OP's S is different to talking to OP. It depends on what he is like. If he is using you for support Yoyo then don't go near. You need to support you. OW's H is not your prob. What would your H think do you think if he knew OW's H was approaching you?

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength