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It's like when someone dies close to you there suddenly seem to be loads of programs on death - I think on these boards we are probably a bit hyper sensitive about the whole M thing - don't you think?

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I believe so. Even movies that you have no ideas that they are about marital problems are. I had no idea that the movie "Premonition" was really about adultery!




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Originally Posted By: saffie
It's like when someone dies close to you there suddenly seem to be loads of programs on death - I think on these boards we are probably a bit hyper sensitive about the whole M thing - don't you think?

Saffie


Saffie,

I would prefer to think of it as buying a new car and then seeing the same car all over.

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Someday I wish I could just NOT THINK.

Alcohol / substance abuse sometimes looks so attractive.......

I don't smoke - I don't drink, (much) so I just want to do prescription drugs!!!!! That's gonna have to be my motto. I have been fighting it but I am beginning to think AD's here I come again....

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Originally Posted By: saffie
Someday I wish I could just NOT THINK.

Alcohol / substance abuse sometimes looks so attractive.......

I don't smoke - I don't drink, (much) so I just want to do prescription drugs!!!!! That's gonna have to be my motto. I have been fighting it but I am beginning to think AD's here I come again....

saffie



Saffie,

I walk this fine line also. Ihave had alott of "stuff" avalable to me in the last 2 months. I an cutting back but for a while it was flowing pretty freely.

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Saff-

I am taking a AD and as much as I hate to admit it, it takes the wild swings out. I was having mild panic attacks and anxiety issues prior to taking them. I still get a bit anxious, but they really help. I hope to be off them as soon as possible, but there is no shame in taking them.


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Saffie,
I too take AD's. I don't think they have altered my personality, they just take the edge off. I'm able to concentrate, get my work done, take care of my family, sleep, and the list goes on. Before getting on AD's I could not manage any of these things when H dropped the bomb on me. I was a wreck. I don't believe I'm ready to be off of them yet. I may get there, but right now I'm not.

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Hi Yoyo,
Just seeing how you are doing?


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I'm doing okay, how about you?




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Glad to hear. I'm doing okay too. I think I have two potential dates in the works, which I think is good...it's time for me.

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