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I am losing respect for my W for what she is doing to our family
- This is exactly where I am as well.

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I might be in love with who my wife used to be, the person who respected me, was fun, and loved me and the children with all her heart.

Again, I agree. I have sincere doubts that the person who I loved will never exist again. As our daughter is now out of college, I do not have a decision that will affect young children like you do. My guess is that I would hold out longer if that were the case. As it is I have been holding out for roughly 10 months now since the bomb was dropped and 7+ months since she moved out.

Good luck Notaclue. I am sorry we all have to be here.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM