I am losing respect for my W for what she is doing to our family
- This is exactly where I am as well.
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I might be in love with who my wife used to be, the person who respected me, was fun, and loved me and the children with all her heart.
Again, I agree. I have sincere doubts that the person who I loved will never exist again. As our daughter is now out of college, I do not have a decision that will affect young children like you do. My guess is that I would hold out longer if that were the case. As it is I have been holding out for roughly 10 months now since the bomb was dropped and 7+ months since she moved out.
Good luck Notaclue. I am sorry we all have to be here.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM