I think I am also between 3 and 4 and thank goodness I am Dark. My H has been working a normal job, sounding cheery onhis phone, making small talk to my family, agreeing to everyting I want, dressing like a normal person. yet, he will still ocassionally yell at me and flake on the kids and his affair seems to be in full throttle so far so bad.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
