hey, I think at some point we all go thru these kinds of stages. Some more than others. I don't think it means we don't love our S enough. But remember, we are going thru a HUGE crisis, and our brain likes to take over in certain ways, whether it be putting up a wall, or getting angry, or depressed, or whatever.
You M your H for a reason, and love is not a feeling, it is an action. Feelings come and go, and you will definitely love your H sometimes and Hate your H sometimes, but that doesn't mean you stop loving them. You choose to love someone and sometimes the feelings go with it. The more you love someone (it is more an action of giving oneself to another) the more you will have feelings for them.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
