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[saffie]

mcojh,

Thanks for turning up here - I was going to go searching for your thread after yesterday but now GISH can just link through on your name.

GISH - read this guy's thread. You will learn loads. Click thro' it onto Frank_D and possibly Theoden is on there too.

Tell her she has to stop asking those questions. She is trying to assauge her guilt and in trying to do that is hurting you. Tell her that you will survive - because you will!!!- and so she must stop asking. You are happy to talk about things relating to son and anything else is just not necessary at the moment.

OmMsounds great material - what a fcukwit!! - let her find out for herself - DO NOT SUPPORT HER OR OFFER HELP, other than that that will help your son. Control yourself. Make yourself into what you want to be. Have faith in you and , (I have the biggest problem with this about myself), LIKE yourself.

You will be ok. Just keep breathing and ignore any emotional talk with your W.

Saffie