I know...I guess my thing is that in MC, he's requested that I be "more nurturing", and almost every time I try to do something like that, he has a hard time accepting.
I guess I sort of want credit <grin>.
I do think it's like Jen says. Whenever I call him on his inability to accept anything from anyone (it's not just me), he talks about saving me trouble, pain, whatever. Makes me nutso.
You know...I think what's really making me crazy is that I'm just ahead of him on the learning curve here. I've worked my butt off to make myself happy...and he's sort of just played at it. Can't do anything for him though...it's his own journey.
Thanks Jen and Rob for chiming in. You know, Jen, I think H must have an English twin and it's your H!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!