How would your wife respond if you did say to her "I feel like you ignore me and treat me like dirt?"
She would either say "I don't, I love you" or "I feel like you ignore me" or just remain quiet. That's my guess of course, and I have been very wrong in the past.
I do see how some of my statements in the past have been more passive voice.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
