How do you NOT cry when your wife of 22 years tells you that to your face? I felt numb and like I was hit by a truck. She dropped my son off this morning and then called me to ask me how I was? How do you answer that? She's asked me a few times how I'm feeling? Do I tell her I haven't slept? Do I tell her I am devistated? Or do I lie and say everything is ok? And why would she care how I'm feeling?