Thanks for explaining. Just for my own info.... your H had two EAs? No PA, as far as you know?
No he had one EA (never became romantic. It was an intense friendship that completely excluded me) and then another EA that turned into a nine month affair that ended on Christmas Eve (when he also moved back home after staying with a friend for 4+ months) and their relationship restarted again some time 2 months later when my XH made the decision to not work on the marriage anymore and I moved out.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
