The main thing is that right now, S8 seems to be doing OK. His next appointment is on October 2nd. I don't think that he will be diagnosed ADHD. I shudder to think what will come out in these appointments.
I am and have been super busy so I will paraphrase.
I have had a few "run ins" with XW as well as OM in the last few days.
I got screwed out of Trick or treating(which falls on my Bday). She already told the kids about their plans, and I am not going to pull crap on the kids where they will be dissapointed. I have told her that she needs to check the parenting plan, that I will let it go this time but from now on Trick or treating is mine... IT's important to me.
She is nuts, we knew that, but not to the extent that I have been seeing. Just because I disagree and attempt to discuss conflict(like an adult), I am poking and needling her, and disrupting her drama free-simple life.
OM is a dark, mean, internally ugly man. He got in my face over a disagreement that XW and I had. (I made a mistake on some homework, which I accepted responsibility and apologized for). In the process of this, he basicly said too bad at the stuff he says to S8 about me, he also mocked him, and did a pretty rude impersonation of him. He called me a $#!tty father, and attempted to "tell" me when I would have my kids at his house one day..... He is lucky that s3 was in the car, and he knows it.
I will update more later, right now I gotta get some guys up for "piss-tests" (At work right now).
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.