Karen, our separation is wrapped up in being too aggressive, i.e. not sensitive to her needs culminating in disrespectful episodes to each other. She'd be passive aggressive whereas I would push. the dynamic mirrored in the bedroom. My 180 is to lay off and learn to be sweet as apple pie for the rest of my life. It was only stressful times where we would get into spats. I did not know how unhappy she was, then bingo the ax dropped. I am working to get back into communication, then try to get back in the house, then the sex issue . . . but I know it will come up as soon as I get back in the house. -- CanChange
