Wow, that is a long convo and you did soooo well! Text book- well. Michele would be proud-well! He is sobbing on the phone? Whoa. I know he kept saying he missed he kids, but I am sure he meant not to mention you because he is guarding himself. He misses you also, no doubt. He is afraid and selfish.
How is he bonding with your Daughter5mo? Do you hold her all the time, attachment and all?
I really got the feeling that my H and my S2 never really bonded like my D6 and H did. He wore her in a sling a lot, not as much as me. She also slept with both of us but H did not sleep at all with S2. She spoke very early, like at 13 months! He seemed to enjoy cosleeping in the beginning and he helped a lot with night nursing but only with our D6. My s2 spoke a little late (25months?) and was hardly in a sling.
How are you sleeping? Does your S2 still sleep with you? Is he night nursing also? How does your H support your parenting now? Does not sound like it. Sorry for all the questions but again, you amaze me! I was in a coccoon for the first few months after having a baby. I just focused on me and the baby and I am not sure how you can do that now while you are managing your work and all the legal meetings, etc.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."